13 September 2016
Respectful disrespect…

Respectful disrespect…


Have you ever felt disrespected? To disrespect someone is the act of being insulting towards them. When we disrespect people, we think very little o...
06 September 2016
The perils of monotony

The perils of monotony


"As long as habit and routine dictate the pattern of living, new dimensions of the soul will not emerge.” – Henry Van Dyke So often we c...
30 August 2016
The ‘forbidden fruit’ concept in relationships

The ‘forbidden fruit’ concept in relationships


Continued from last week Love will find you… Going after an unavailable person is definitely a recipe for emotional pain and disaster. It is ...
23 August 2016
The ‘forbidden fruit’ concept in relationships

The ‘forbidden fruit’ concept in relationships


Have you ever wondered why the interest in someone skyrockets just after they enter a committed relationship? Persons may have been single for a whi...
16 August 2016
Spotting emotional unavailability – Part 2

Spotting emotional unavailability – Part 2


Continued from last week We continue with signs which may indicate emotional unavailability. 6. You find it difficult to flirt; not only are you ...
09 August 2016
Spotting emotional unavailability – Part 1

Spotting emotional unavailability – Part 1


1. Self-denial: Being in constant denial about your feelings by saying, "I’m fine.” This is a classic statement of misrepresentation that ...
26 July 2016
Am I emotionally unavailable?

Am I emotionally unavailable?


Being emotionally available is not that easy for any of us. It is a fact that one of life’s interesting phenomena is that we often reject the v...
19 July 2016
Am I self-destructive?

Am I self-destructive?


Millions of people engage in self-destructive behaviours; some are oblivious to the fact that they are self-destructive, while others do so delibera...
12 July 2016
Tips in responding to an angry child

Tips in responding to an angry child


1. Catch the child being good. Tell the child what behaviours please you. Respond to positive efforts and reinforce good behaviour. An observing and...
28 June 2016
Responding to your child’s anger

Responding to your child’s anger


Handling children’s anger can be somewhat confusing, draining, and distressing for adults. In fact, one of the major problems in dealing with a...